Unanswered
Prayers: The Most Common Reasons Why
By Dr.
Dale A. Robbins
(Used by Granted Permission on 3/11/2003)
One of the
greatest benefits afforded to every Christian is the privilege of
answered prayers. In the Bible, Jesus made this tremendous promise,
And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will
receive (Matt 21:22). However, despite the Lords willingness
to answer prayer, it is obvious that some prayers have gone unanswered.
Why is this? The following are the most common reasons why some
prayers do not get results:
1. Lack
of Fellowship with God and His word
John 15:7 If
you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you
desire, and it shall be done for you.
Unanswered
prayers are sometimes a result of absence from fellowship with the
Lord and His Word. Jesus promised that if we would remain in His
fellowship, and allow His Word to remain in us, this would produce
results in prayer.
2. Not seeking
to Please the Lord
1 John 3:22
And whatever we ask we receive from Him, because we keep His
commandments and do those things that are pleasing in His sight.
Answers to
prayer come when we seek to keep His commandments and please the
Lord with our life. This is not to suggest that we earn
answered prayers, any more than we can earn salvation which comes
only by faith (Eph. 2:8-9). He answers our prayers from his grace
and mercy (Heb. 4:16), not merely from our good deeds.
However, keeping His commandments and pleasing the Lord is a product
of our obedience to His word, which is faith in action (James 2:20).
What are His commandments? He commanded that we are to love the
Lord with all our heart, mind, and soul, and to love our neighbor
as ourself (Mark 12:30-31). Further, Jesus said we are to love our
brethren as He has loved us. This is My commandment, that
you love one another as I have loved you (John 15:12). Lack
of love, bitterness, unforgiveness is the root of many unanswered
prayers, since faith works by love (Gal 5:6).
3. Unconfessed
Sin in Ones Life
1 Peter 3:12
For the eyes of the LORD are on the righteous, And His ears
are open to their prayers; But the face of the LORD is against those
who do evil.
There is no
doubt that sin will disrupt the flow of Gods blessings and
answers to prayer. The psalmist, David wrote, If I regard
iniquity in my heart, The Lord will not hear (Psa. 66:18).
All acts of rebellion and disobedience to God is considered sin.
Sins of commission, are those overt acts which are done
in disobedience. However, sins of omission, are those
things we dont do in obedience, but know we should (James
4:17). The remedy for all sin is to confess it to God, forsake it,
and ask Him to forgive you (1 John 1:9).
4. Improper
Motives
James 4:3 You
ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend
it on your pleasures.
Our motives
in our prayer requests are of concern to the Lord. He wishes to
help us in our time of need, but is not obligated to answer prayers
which will merely feed our carnal, worldly appetites and (lustful)
pleasures. Our motives and desires can be corrected by humbling
ourselves, and drawing near to God (James 4:8-10).
5. Not asking
in Gods will
1 John 5:14-15
Now this is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we
ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know
that He hears us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions
that we have asked of Him.
God will only
answer those prayers that are in His will. When we ask
anything that is in His will, we can have assurance that those petitions
(requests) are granted to us. Gods will is revealed through
His Word, the Bible. Anything promised by His Word is His will,
and we can be confident that Hell honor our prayers based
on His Word.
6. Dont
know how to pray
Luke 11:1 "...Lord,
teach us to pray...
Some lack effectiveness
in prayer simply because they dont know what the scriptures
teach about prayer. Jesus gave His disciples an outline for prayer
in Matthew 6:9-13.
Take the time to study it. Other passages teach that prayer is primarily
to be a private, intimate time with the Lord (Matt. 6:6), to be
intermingled with praise and thanksgiving (Acts 16:25, Phil. 4:6).
Times of fasting with prayer are beneficial to strengthen our faith
and power in prayer (Acts 14:23, 1 Cor. 7:5). Jesus often went to
secluded places to spend prolonged periods in prayer (Luke 6:12,
Matt. 4:2).
7. Lack
of Faith
Hebrews 11:6
But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who
comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder
of those who diligently seek Him.
We cannot please
God without faith. Prayer is not merely begging from
God. It is believing God and His Word! Faith will come
forth and grow as we devote our attention to the Word of God (Romans
10:17). Our faith can also be built up, by praying in
the Holy Spirit (Jude 1:20).
8. Misunderstanding
of Faith
Mark 11:24
Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray,
believe that you receive them, and you will have them. Many
do not understand that faith is believing in the reality of things,
even though we cannot see them (Heb. 11:1). Jesus said that when
you pray, you must believe that you receive your answer
at that moment. The word, receive comes from the Greek
word, LAMBANO, which means to receive now (present tense).
He then says we will have them. "Have" comes
from, ESOMAI, which means to possess later (future tense).
So, when we pray we must believe in the finished results of our
prayer, and we will eventually experience the tangible results sometime
later.
9. Wavering
faith
James 1:6-7
But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts
is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let
not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord;
There are those
who allow every wind of feelings or circumstances to
influence or discourage their faith. They vacillate back and forth,
like the waves tossed about in the sea. One day they believe, but
the next, theyre ready to give up, and so forth. Such persons
usually base their faith on their feelings or emotions instead of
Gods Word. They who waver in their faith cannot expect to
receive anything of the Lord. Our faith must become
stable, steadfast, and consistent to receive from God.
10. Failure
to apply spiritual Authority
Mark 11:23
For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain,
Be removed and be cast into the sea, and does not doubt in his heart,
but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have
whatever he says.
There are times
that some prayers may not get far until we incorporate the spoken
authority of the name of Jesus. The reason for this is that the
problems we face may sometimes be a product of an evil
spiritual origin. As Paul writes, For we do not wrestle against
flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against
the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts
of wickedness in the heavenly places (Eph 6:12). In such cases,
our prayers may need to engage in what we call spiritual warfare
to obtain results.
The need for
this type of prayer is most obvious whenever Christians deal directly
with demonic activity. For this evil operation to cease, our prayers
need to include the exercise of spiritual authority against the
devil in the name of Jesus, commanding him to leave (Acts 16:18).
Therefore, as Jesus indicated, there will be times that we may need
to literally speak to mountains (symbolic of obstacles and problems)
and tell them to move in Jesus name.
11. Lack
of Perseverance
Galatians 6:9
And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season
we shall reap if we do not lose heart.
Probably the
greatest reason that some prayers go unanswered is because many
give-up praying and believing before they receive their answer.
As long as we have the promise of Gods Word, be patient and
persistent - keep believing, and dont quit, no matter how
long it takes! God has a due season when He will bring
the answer to pass.
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